Friendship is the hardest of relations to define ( unless you have tried understanding love :p) .You don't know when someone becomes your friend..I mean you can't say ok I have met you and I think we have a good understanding of each other and I want to be a part of your life so now from 7:00 pm we are going to be friends, in fact I have never said to my friends that you are my best friend or something like that unless I need some favor and want to persuade them to do something which they don't want to.( emotional blackmailing ;))...and the golden line for these situations is saale dost ke liye itna bhi nahi kar sakta, dekh li teri dosti..and it works every time and it works on me too.
The best part of friendship is that since it doesn't comes with pre defined roles as in our other relationships, friends play almost every role we need them to. Ask them for a advice on something and suddenly they will give you a lecture which will put Paul Robinson to shame. Today Suraj asked me to help him to select a subject for his optional and the moment he finished his sentence I was on with all my research on every subject which he cannot chose, should not chose, subjects to stay away from...there was only a small matter that I was not able to suggest him a subject to choose:p and how can I when I am still not decided about my own optionals. In the end he admitted that he made a mistake by asking me because now he is even more confused ...beta kya matlab hai tumhara, itna bol bacchan bekar gaya mera....
Though I have also been on receiving ends of these bol bacchans on several occasions. From the time me and Tarun found out that we devils are made for a life long friendship we have been constantly together and later I found out that even classmates had coined us as rahu-ketu (which we took as a compliment ). Recently when he found out that I am in love with someone he came up with lectures which included every single point under the universe related to a girl and a boy. He did post mortem of my situation and dissected every single thought and came to the conclusion that I am trying too hard for something which is impossible ( as if i didn't knew). To be honest I was really awed by his understanding( though when it comes to girls, he is as bad as I am) and only regret I have now is that I didn't record his conversations, there was enough matter in them for at least 10 posts or may be for a book titled " How to make your friend feel guilty for falling in love"( long title na, well it will give you an idea about the thickness of that imaginary book) . Now I am waiting for him to fall for someone and give some of those lectures back to him :p ( just kidding).
On a different note one of my friends asked me to write a post related to our school teachers..though the idea is very interesting and would definitely think about writing some time later at least KD deserves a post ....and a post about spice girls group would be interesting though risky :p.
P.S - Here "spice girls" does not refers to the British pop group, here I am referring to a group of 4 fashionable girls ( thats what they think about themselves) who happened to be firm believers of YOLO studying in my batch and if anyone of them reads this , I am doomed.
The best part of friendship is that since it doesn't comes with pre defined roles as in our other relationships, friends play almost every role we need them to. Ask them for a advice on something and suddenly they will give you a lecture which will put Paul Robinson to shame. Today Suraj asked me to help him to select a subject for his optional and the moment he finished his sentence I was on with all my research on every subject which he cannot chose, should not chose, subjects to stay away from...there was only a small matter that I was not able to suggest him a subject to choose:p and how can I when I am still not decided about my own optionals. In the end he admitted that he made a mistake by asking me because now he is even more confused ...beta kya matlab hai tumhara, itna bol bacchan bekar gaya mera....
Though I have also been on receiving ends of these bol bacchans on several occasions. From the time me and Tarun found out that we devils are made for a life long friendship we have been constantly together and later I found out that even classmates had coined us as rahu-ketu (which we took as a compliment ). Recently when he found out that I am in love with someone he came up with lectures which included every single point under the universe related to a girl and a boy. He did post mortem of my situation and dissected every single thought and came to the conclusion that I am trying too hard for something which is impossible ( as if i didn't knew). To be honest I was really awed by his understanding( though when it comes to girls, he is as bad as I am) and only regret I have now is that I didn't record his conversations, there was enough matter in them for at least 10 posts or may be for a book titled " How to make your friend feel guilty for falling in love"( long title na, well it will give you an idea about the thickness of that imaginary book) . Now I am waiting for him to fall for someone and give some of those lectures back to him :p ( just kidding).
On a different note one of my friends asked me to write a post related to our school teachers..though the idea is very interesting and would definitely think about writing some time later at least KD deserves a post ....and a post about spice girls group would be interesting though risky :p.
P.S - Here "spice girls" does not refers to the British pop group, here I am referring to a group of 4 fashionable girls ( thats what they think about themselves) who happened to be firm believers of YOLO studying in my batch and if anyone of them reads this , I am doomed.
