scared to love someone and scared to be loved by anyone....doesn't it sound inhibiting yourself??????....ya certainly it does...why should anyone feel like this??... shouldn't we dare more in life and let ourselves free to feel everything....whatever life throws upon us....Am I holding myself too tight?.....may be...
Why is love so scary???? only answer I can think of is maybe because in love there is nothing we can have control of...absolutely nothing....
Or is it scary at all?...how can a word so beautiful be scary.. .surely it can't be....they say to live is to love...
It depends....if you love someone who loves you back, then its the best thing in the world...but unfortunately if you are not one of those lucky ones having such destiny then its absolute nightmare..it really is...your suffering is proportionate to deepness of your love....you can say that you are happy for him/her, your love is selfless and blah blah...but in the end when dreams are broken, pain is inevitable
Recently sunil told me that its better to be with someone who loves you then trying to be with someone who doesn't....I just asked him doesn't it sound selfish...to stay with someone because she loves me so I will be happy...and what about her ?? isn't love thought to be mutual feeling... love is not be faked....a little hurting is better than giving false hopes and dreams only to break them.....after that I can say sorry for hundred times and explain her but all this will not change anything for her...and he didn't uttered a word back...
Its not that as if I am an anti- love person though few people think like that...love can be amazing. It teaches you so many things about yourself and it gives you new perspective for life and so much more...
But life is not a fair affair..its never meant to be..so you have got to prioritize things and here it gets all difficult...love can be awesome and this and that but is it worthwhile to give priority to something which is going to hurt you ?..I know there are people who will say pyar me duniadari nahi dekhi jati ( any other dialogue from bollywood will also suffice) ...but unfortunately this is not reel life...if life had been only about love then I wonder how so many heart broken people manage to live...love is certainly a big part of life but still it is only a part...moreover there are so many people around you in the form of family and friends to love you that not being loved by some AVERAGE guy should not mean that much for you....A guy who is intelligent and looks nice from outset doesn't necessarily means he is...Am not even sure scoring marks in exams equals to intelligence..
One more thing, Its not that if someone doesn't loves you back then it means that he just doesn't cares...he might be feeling guilty because he can't reciprocate your love, if he is avoiding you on purpose than it doesn't means that he is arrogant, it means that he wants you to focus on your life.....I can't explain much here, even if i do, you won't understand....but a few years later ...you would. You know you are not supposed to run after love.....let love find you...you are awesome just like everyone is and there must be someone around you who can make you feel like that and trust me that will be amazing and then you are going to laugh over all this....life is simple...sometimes we complicate it more than needed...
On a different note I have been listening a lot of Jagjit and chitra..Am not sure about your taste of music but this song is a good one...
Its 1 am already so going to close this post, I don't know if whatever I have written makes any sense for you but anyhow I have kept my word,....and I don't think you expected better than this from me...if you did...I repeat I am just average...nothing more than that..
p.s - Now you can't call me arrogant...you asked me to write for you and see in just 10 minutes..here it is....
Why is love so scary???? only answer I can think of is maybe because in love there is nothing we can have control of...absolutely nothing....
Or is it scary at all?...how can a word so beautiful be scary.. .surely it can't be....they say to live is to love...
It depends....if you love someone who loves you back, then its the best thing in the world...but unfortunately if you are not one of those lucky ones having such destiny then its absolute nightmare..it really is...your suffering is proportionate to deepness of your love....you can say that you are happy for him/her, your love is selfless and blah blah...but in the end when dreams are broken, pain is inevitable
Recently sunil told me that its better to be with someone who loves you then trying to be with someone who doesn't....I just asked him doesn't it sound selfish...to stay with someone because she loves me so I will be happy...and what about her ?? isn't love thought to be mutual feeling... love is not be faked....a little hurting is better than giving false hopes and dreams only to break them.....after that I can say sorry for hundred times and explain her but all this will not change anything for her...and he didn't uttered a word back...
Its not that as if I am an anti- love person though few people think like that...love can be amazing. It teaches you so many things about yourself and it gives you new perspective for life and so much more...
But life is not a fair affair..its never meant to be..so you have got to prioritize things and here it gets all difficult...love can be awesome and this and that but is it worthwhile to give priority to something which is going to hurt you ?..I know there are people who will say pyar me duniadari nahi dekhi jati ( any other dialogue from bollywood will also suffice) ...but unfortunately this is not reel life...if life had been only about love then I wonder how so many heart broken people manage to live...love is certainly a big part of life but still it is only a part...moreover there are so many people around you in the form of family and friends to love you that not being loved by some AVERAGE guy should not mean that much for you....A guy who is intelligent and looks nice from outset doesn't necessarily means he is...Am not even sure scoring marks in exams equals to intelligence..
One more thing, Its not that if someone doesn't loves you back then it means that he just doesn't cares...he might be feeling guilty because he can't reciprocate your love, if he is avoiding you on purpose than it doesn't means that he is arrogant, it means that he wants you to focus on your life.....I can't explain much here, even if i do, you won't understand....but a few years later ...you would. You know you are not supposed to run after love.....let love find you...you are awesome just like everyone is and there must be someone around you who can make you feel like that and trust me that will be amazing and then you are going to laugh over all this....life is simple...sometimes we complicate it more than needed...
On a different note I have been listening a lot of Jagjit and chitra..Am not sure about your taste of music but this song is a good one...
Its 1 am already so going to close this post, I don't know if whatever I have written makes any sense for you but anyhow I have kept my word,....and I don't think you expected better than this from me...if you did...I repeat I am just average...nothing more than that..
p.s - Now you can't call me arrogant...you asked me to write for you and see in just 10 minutes..here it is....
